Friday 6 May 2016

Do you need to be stylish everyday???

I took my time to select the name of my blog (actually my channel) and at the end I came up with Be stylish everyday - why?  there is a  few reasons for that. The first is quite simple - I wanted to share my everyday outfits. But when I thought about it deeper there is more than just my everyday styles. Why to bother to make yourself stylish everyday? Can't you just put on whatever? Of course you can ;) but being stylish is way more than just vain and narcissistic dressing up!
Would you believe if I tell you that dressing up can change your life?!
How? Let's list it :)
First and the foremost, the most important thing that I can't stress  enough is that the way you look affect the way you feel. It might sound silly but it has a big power! I bet that every girl (a man probably too!) feels great when going out for a special event, wearing nicely with proper make up completing the look (ok, in case of  guys skip make up and shave instead). So why not do it on everyday basics? Sure we are not going to wear this sexy party dress for work ;) But it doesn't mean that you can't be smiling to your image in the mirror before you leave for work! Important is to make sure that the way you dress is actually your style not a hard approach to look stylish. You won't be feeling good in something that you don't like or aren't convinced to. Being stylish dosen't also mean blindly following of the latest trends. You can stick to classic elegance maybe broken with a bit of casual style. The result? Good looking, pulled together you. Trust me, once you think about yourself in positive way your day is going to be better because you started it in a positive way. By feeling good about yourself you are automatically happier and more confident. And confidence, as we all know is a treasure which can change your life. It can help you to get your dream job, make friends or even meet the love of our life! And here we come to the second reason why dressing up is necessary. No matter how much someone wants to deny, people still will judge by appearance - meaning clothes and emotions on your face. If you want to be at a certain place in your career you should dress appropriate to the business you are aiming for. It's a tiny thing which reveal your professionalism and seriousness about your life goals. Basically it speaks how much you care! And it also speaks how mature you are. If you are a student you don't need to place yourself into jeans and whatever t-shirt and stay this way until life force you to change. In terms of career I would say that being well, professionally dressed is a first step to the future promotion.
The reason is simple, the more professional you look the more trust people will give you. The most obvious example would be a rocker with tattoos sitting in a bank and convincing you to invest your money into something. Have ever thought why people in banks don't look like a hippie?? (personally I have nothing against them!). We, humans like to categorize things around us including people. It's just a mechanism which makes our brain less busy in processing information and give kind of safety feeling when something is categorized as "safe", "good" or "watch out". That's why white lab coat is used by specialist even they don't need it. Like people selling glasses or pharmacists giving you painkillers. There is no point in wearing protective clothing for them but it give respect as they are specialists ;) I could talk about it endless but I assume that if someone reached to the end of the post,  you've already got my point.

At the end I would like to cite a fashion quote of unknown author:
"Life's too short to wear boring clothes" - so make sure you get the most out of yours! :)

xoxo
Natalia



4 comments:

  1. Yes, appearance is not a superficial thing. I think how we look sends out messages about lots of things about invisuble values of each of us :)

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  2. I really, really liked this one!! :)

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    1. I'm very happy you enjoyed! Thank you sooo much for leaving the comment and telling me that!! :)

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